To be known is to be found.
"To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved (be rejected) is our greatest nightmare. BUT to be utterly known & truly loved, to have Jesus die for me & then for me to know that, that's the love I am looking for. It is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can throw at us..Also, without which, our sexual romantic life will be distorted. I think." Tim Keller (you NEED to listen to him at this link: Sex and the Romantic Solution)